157. If, in an argument the accused and the accuser do not practice honest self-examination, you can expect that it will lead to drawn out, bitter, contentious strife and no one will be able to live in peace.
And how should the two parties practice strict self-examination? The accused should reflect: ‘I have committed some wrong and that other person saw me. When he saw, he got annoyed and said so. He rebuked me and I got annoyed and went and told the others. So, it is I who am at fault.’
And how does the accuser practice honest self-examination? The accuser should reflect: ‘This person has committed some wrong and I saw him. Had he not done it, I would not have seen it, but as he did it, I saw it. When I saw, I was displeased and I told him so. He got annoyed and told the others. So it is I who am at fault.’
Thus, it is that if in an argument the accused and the accuser both practice honest self-examination, you can expect that all will be able to live in peace.
A.I,53 (AN 2.15)
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