251. Fools think they have won a battle
When they bully with harsh speech,
But it is knowing how to forbear
That makes one victorious.
The worse of the two
Is one who retaliates when abused.
One who does not retaliate
Wins a battle hard to win.
Knowing that the other person is angry,
Those who remain mindful and calm
Act in their own best interest
And in the interest of the other too.
This is to be a healer of both oneself
And the other person also.
But those who do not understand the Dhamma
Will think you are a fool.
S.I,163 (SN 7.3)